Today I have eaten half an entire cake to myself, put away all the washing and vacuumed twice. Today my daughter started juniors at a new school after 6 months of home-ed.
She was so excited, and counting down the days until school started. I was counting backward to see what we could fit into our last days of summer together. She couldn’t wait to wear her new uniform while I complained about the uniformity of uniform, and the polyester content. She was excited to meet her new teacher while I pondered if she might know about learning rather than just teaching. She was excited to meet new friends while I questioned if she would feel able to be herself in a peer group. Urgh I could go on and on but basically, she was excited, me…not so much.
So here is my cathartic list post of things we are saying goodbye to now home-ed is no more for Beg.
- Home-Ed meets and Facebook groups. The first groups I’ve ever joined where I felt I fully fit in (because literally everyone fits in).
- Feelings of freedom. Hello school rat race.
- Empty parks, empty national trust properties, empty castles and beaches. Goodbye elderly crowd we could bump around with in these places. Eating sandwiches on benches and going slow together.
- Sleeping when we want even though she generally kept to the same bedtimes as that suited her now we have to wake up when the government tells us to (allow me some slight mellow drama here please I’m having a cathartic moment).
- Bumping into other home ed families we don’t know and saying hi because you’re the only two families at the museum in the middle of the day.
- The possibility of holidays outside of term time.
- 6 hours of her day missing all the parts where she comes up with an amazing idea or a really interesting philosophical question. When her eyes light up and she says “Hey Mum, do all animals have tails?” And we spend the next week naming animals and discussing their tails.
- Home ed discounts. Thanks Cadw it was fun.
- Wearing whatever she wants.
- Goodbye no pressure to learn (or rote repeat) things she has to know so they can measure her teacher’s performance. Goodbye no pressure overall.
There are 10 things, I’m sure I will think of many more but I’m off for a good cry now! Bye bye home ed. It’s been real.
Are there any other things you would miss about home ed that aren’t on this list? Are you wondering why then we decided to go back to school? So am I! No I’m not, just kidding, there will be another post about it up soon. Comment below and let me know what you love most about home-ed.
Today we went foraging with our local home ed group. I’ve never been foraging before, apart from for blackberries as a kid but they always just sat on the side in a bowl once I got them home anyway. In Wales there are plenty of wide open green public spaces to go tromping about and there are lots of signposted walking trails too. The plants we were foraging for today are hardy and grow anywhere; you can go foraging anywhere there is a bit of greenery.
I’ve heard of foraging as it seems to be becoming a popular thing to do but it never really took my fancy. This activity was kindly planned and facilitated for free by one of the families who are in the home ed group so it was a great opportunity to learn something new. The kids got to playing straight away and we got loads of fresh air.
We walked a route that was right behind where we used to live. It’s a housing estate that backs onto a green belt, so the countryside kind of pops up on you. The walk took us through a new local cemetery which has a natural burials meadow with no markings for the remains on the side we walked through and then onto woodland where we sat together on some logs to share nettle soup.
The nettle soup (the frobscottle) was delicious.
All along the way we stopped and tried lots of different plants and the dad who was leading collected loads up to have a salad with the soup he had kindly made and brought to share. I was really surprised at the variety of flavours. I kind of expected varying degrees of the taste of grass but all the ones I tried were so different and really flavoursome. I tried ramsons which tasted unmistakeably of garlic, then goose grass which has a hazelnut taste at the end. Bittercress which tasted exactly like ‘normal’ cress, and sorrel which tasted really zingy like crab apples. None of it would be out of place on a garden salad in a posh restaurant for either looks or flavour. It was great to see how easy it is to find edible plants and the best part was all the kids thought it was great and were trying them and getting really involved too.
We passed a pond and saw some frog spawn which I was just as made up with as the kids, even though my inner health and safety regulator comes out in hives when I see children near open water. It was fine, nobody fell in! We clambered over styles which is always fun and splodged in mud, pushed through bushes, and sat on logs. Beg grabbed my hand and asked me to admire the view with her at the top, and we filled our lungs and hair with the wind and I felt thankful to God for our freedom and the green green grass of home. It was such a great day and has helped me to positively reaffirm my home schooling decision.
I would fully recommend trying foraging for yourself. I’m positive you will be surprised at the different tastes. You can make nettle and ramson leaf soup in the same way you would make any soup, just wash them and fry them until soft and add in some vegetables of your choice and blend down. Nettles are apparently full of vitamins and can be used to treat painful muscles and joints. I’m off to find an elderflower cordial recipe on pinterest ready for spring. If you’re into plant-based eating, you may get some inspiration from my Vegan Supper Club post.
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Enjoy! Have you tried foraging? What did you make?